Women at Carmelina Home find joy in the experience
Every Wednesday night, Deacon Philip Allard drives through rush-hour traffic across Toronto to Carmelina Home, a long-term care residential program run by the Passionist Sisters for women recovering from addiction, substance abuse and emotional issues.
Allard takes with him his guitar.
A social worker by trade and a folk musician by hobby, Allard joined the diaconate 12 years ago and has held a ministry position at Carmelina Home for seven years, playing his guitar and leading a sing-song with the women who live there.
Before that, he dabbled in ministry work at a hospital and at Providence Centre, but found those placements to be too similar to his profession.
“I was looking for a unique and different experience,” Allard said.
Allard admits he didn’t know what a deacon was before he looked into becoming one himself. He did, however, feel compelled to do more.
And his ministry at Carmelina Home has turned out to be the perfect fit for Allard, who on top of playing the guitar has performed in community theatre, even playing lead roles in several Gilbert and Sullivan musicals.
“I didn’t go there with any specific agenda,” Allard said of how his ministry at Carmelina Home came to be one of music.
“I thought music would be nice, (and) they really took to (it). I’m building my repertoire and having a lot of fun.”
Carmelina Home boasts a strict and intensive two-year program, so Allard tries to keep Wednesday evenings light and enjoyable. The songs are not strictly religious, though Allard said he tries to pick ones with uplifting and positive spiritual messages.
One crowd favourite is “Lean on Me.”
“It’s not a religious song, but it’s very inspiring and encouraging.”
But he said the most encouraging songs of all are ones that involve everyone.
“Musically, it’s always nice when you’re including other people,” Allard said. “Some of the women really like to sing so it gives me an opportunity to throw in a couple harmonies.”
For Allard, one of his best experiences at Carmelina Home is singing with the women for their annual gala several years ago.
“All the women there really wanted an opportunity to sing, with me leading the song,” Allard said. “Just the excitement in the home the weeks leading up to that, that’s probably the most memorable.
“It seemed to be a very happy time for the women, to share joy in that experience.”
[issuu width=600 height=360 backgroundColor=%23222222 documentId=120910160538-19846c86f786424e98153821bd480e84 name=diaconate username=catholicregister tag=anniversary unit=px v=2]