Hurley explained that the retreat is focused on trying to connect faith to everyday life. Participants learn about the Apostleship of Prayer’s idea of making a morning offering, living the Eucharist throughout the day and ending the day with an evening review. The retreat also leaves time for young adults to socialize with one another during meal times and a coffeehouse social.

At a recent Hearts on Fire retreat in Washington, Hurley spoke to a group of young adults about competing loves in life, such as hobbies, family, God and work.

“How do we get those different things ordered in our life so that our hearts really are on fire?” he asked the audience.

“When I read about this I thought, ‘That’s exactly what I’m looking for,’ ” said college student Amanda Ussak, who hoped to gain “a better sense of how young people like myself could better incorporate prayer and spirituality into my everyday life, not just that once a week, on Sunday at Mass.”

Phillip Kronstein, another retreat participant, said he was happy to attend because it’s often hard to find fellowship and people who share his values outside of specific parish-based young adult groups.

“We hope we leave you wanting more,” Sam Sawyer, a Jesuit scholastic and one of the presenters, told the group in Washington. “We hope for you to be drawn deeper into God’s love for you.”

“Hopefully this retreat leads us to make choices through Christ, with Christ, in Christ,” said presenter Sean Powers, also a Jesuit scholastic. Powers engaged the audience through anecdotes and comical references.

Sarah Yaklic, co-ordinator of young adult ministry for the archdiocese of Washington told CNS, “One of the goals of young adult ministry, especially in the archdiocese of Washington, is to connect them (young adults) to their parish communities.”

Nathan Castellanos agreed with Yaklic, saying he feels young adults should be treated like “normal members of a parish.”

“I don’t like this whole separation into this weird category of young adult,” he said. “I feel like, as a young adult, no one asks very much of me, and I find that a little bit frustrating. You know, I have talents, I have skills, and I don’t find people asking to use those skills.”

Hurley said he believes it is important for parishes to have a young adult ministry group, but also to incorporate young adults into the larger parish community by providing leadership roles.

“Young adults have particular needs but also have a unique perspective to offer,” he said.

In the end, Castellanos said he found “not necessarily big answers to life questions, but simple peace with where I’m at, and that’s a blessing.”

More information about Hearts of Fire retreat program can be found at the web site www.apostleshipofprayer.org/heartsonfire.html.